Your league is three weeks old and the same guy has won every night. He's a 6 handicap, half your coworkers picked up the game last summer, and the standings already feel decided. That's what gross scoring does to a mixed group. The best player wins, everyone else plays for second, and by week five a few of them have found a reason to skip.
Net scoring fixes that. It's usually the most important setting for a league where people don't all play at the same level, which is basically every office league.
Gross vs. net, in plain terms
Gross is your raw score. Count every stroke, and that's your gross. It's simple, and it always favors the better golfer.
Net is your gross minus your handicap. Your handicap is a number that stands in for your skill. Roughly, it's how many strokes over par you usually shoot, so a newer player might be a 20 and a strong one a 5. In a net game everyone subtracts their handicap, which measures the round against your own ability instead of against the best player in the group.
That one subtraction is what lets a 20 and a 5 compete on the same night.

A quick example
Say two coworkers play a league round.
- Dana shoots 92 with a 20 handicap. Her net is 72.
- Sam shoots 78 with a 5 handicap. His net is 73.
Sam beat her by 14 strokes on paper and still lost the night by one. On gross, Sam wins every week and it isn't close. On net, Dana's good round beats Sam's average one, which is what keeps her showing up.
When should you use gross vs. net?
Use net when skill levels are all over the place. That covers most office and buddy leagues, which is why net is the usual default.
Use gross when the field is genuinely even and everyone's within a few shots of each other, or when you want a straight best-round contest with no adjustments.
Run both leaderboards
Most good leagues keep both. Net decides the league, since that's the competition everyone can win. Gross gets its own recognition, either low gross on the night or a season-long best-round board, so your strong players still get their bragging rights.
That way nobody feels cheated. The scratch golfer gets credit for shooting the actual low number, and the newer player still has a real shot at the league title. Golfer keeps both boards for you and lets players flip between gross and net, so you're not maintaining two spreadsheets to pull it off.

Where do handicaps come from?
Net scoring only works if the handicaps are honest.
A handicap comes from your scores. Post enough rounds and a fair number falls out, based on how you play rather than what you tell people. In Golfer those scores are peer-verified, so the people you played with confirm the round and handicaps reflect rounds that happened. That also handles the classic net-league worry about a sandbagger padding his number to clean up on prize night. It's hard to pad when your playing partners are signing off on every score.
If someone already carries an official handicap, they can use it. If they don't, they post their rounds and one builds itself.
The short version
- Gross is raw strokes; net is gross minus handicap.
- Net lets different skill levels compete on the same night, so it's the right default for a mixed league.
- Use gross for an even field or a best-raw-round prize.
- Better yet, run both: net for the title, gross for bragging rights.
- Keep handicaps honest with posted, verified scores.
Score the league net and give the low-gross round its own shout-out. That keeps the title fair and still gives your best golfer their due.
